Friday, October 10, 2008

I Say Bunco, You Say Bunko

However you spell it, it's F-U-N! I have been in this Bunco group for several years now and I never miss it! It's a must for some socializing and laughing with other adults. Unlike some Bunco groups that I have heard about, everyone in ours gets along and it is not a husband bashing gossip session. I usually get stressed out when it comes to entertaining, but this time I was extremely calm and not stressed, even Scott was impressed. There were several things that made this night memorable.....
Molly's 7 {seven} Buncos...here she is with the jar that she brought as a prize and picked to take back home! Hey, you always bring something you would want in case you need to pick it, so we get it, although I wanted it because it was so cute!

This is Rachele with her special prize. As the host I had to stand up in front of everybody and hold up this prize and show it, feeling very sorry for the person that would end up with this prize. Our prize amount is $10-$12 although many people are more generous than that. I was seriously feeling like I would need to give this person $5 just because I felt so sorry for them. So of course the last person to be drawn from the hat had to be Rachele, the sweetest nicest person ever, that brings awesome gifts, and then Tiffany came clean and said she brought it as part of that running joke and there was actually a $20 bill behind the plaque. Phew! In case you can not tell, it is unfinished wood that says Spring in Sharpie marker! I think everyone was sweating ending up with that prize.Scott brought the kids home in the middle of playing and left the door open and let in some grasshoppers. We had to stop play while Tiffany and Suzy used their bare hands (imagine it in really dramatic voice) to catch them. I HATE (hates a strong word and I mean it) grasshoppers. I remember the horrors of running to my car after work while they jumped all over me and buzz in my ears and my hair. GROSS. Before we caught the second one it jumped on Kris's face and was fluttering in her eye. I rest my case. So, today I was sitting upstairs in the loft when Macey says, "Eeewww what is this?". So I look and it was a dead grasshopper sitting on the ledge! Scott had caught a 3rd one upstairs and he left it there hoping I would get freaked out by it! He is so evil!There were several records.....20 Baby Bunco's.....Highest Score was like 500+ something.....my sister rolled 3 Buncos in a row with a total of 75 in just one round. We had a lot of subs so I was worried if it would be as fun, but it was just as, if not more fun! Counting down to next month.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Seeing {BLUE}

I have been lacking in the blogging department because I have been busy doing some re-decorating around here. I had a deadline because Bunco was going to be at my house last night. Now just to clear it up....some people think that I redo everything everytime Bunco is here and that I go all crazy and get stressed out just to impress the Bunco ladies....not true. The truth is that for the most part I have been a lazy procrastinator. I sat here every day and night for a long time hating my red wall, hating the dirty sliding glass door and all of the heat and light that it lets in, needing to add our 4th child to the picture wall, needing to fill holes in the wall and touch up paint, etc. So, when my turn comes around to host Bunco every other year I have some motivation to get some of these things done around here..so sue me (hahaha remember when we used to say that). I have been married almost 1o years and alive alsmost 30 and I am just now coming to terms and figuring out what I really like when it comes to decorating. I think I have always just kind of gone with what others were doing which just resulted in me never really liking our home and always wanting to change it. Although, it is not exactly where I would like it to be, I come downstairs every morning and just take in a fresh breath and enjoy it!
Here is the picture wall that is flanked by the blue curtains
which I love and it is exactly what I was hoping for!

Here are the curtains that my mother in law {helped} me make, and by helped I mean she did most of the work. When I was looking for curtains I brought like 5 different ones home to see what I liked the best and the fabric on the bottom of this curtain was my favorite. The problem....it was a shower curtain...a very nice and expensive shower curtain, but I had to make it work. So, I went to JoAnn's and found the fabric on the top and away we went. I love love love how they turned out and I love that they block all of the light and heat.

Here is the wall that was formerly red and is now blue. Some times of the day it looks perfect, but some times of the day it is a little on the bright side, but atleast for now I am enjoying it better than the red.

Tate's cheesy smile!

Friday, October 3, 2008

Table Is Gone!

Well, technically it is still in my front yard, but it is spoken for and hopefully still there in the morning. Good-bye table!
Hello real adult new Ta-ha-bllllle!
It even has another leaf to it and can easily seat up to 8 people! Now our whole family can sit at the table once we get some more chairs!
(excuse the mess in the background)

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Sacrifice for What is Right

I thought this video had some interesting facts that I never knew. I guess I never realized the sacrifice it took to sign the Constitution!

Watch this video!

Saturday, September 27, 2008

You Learn Something New Every Day

Last night on our date, I learned some things about Scott I never knew. It makes me wonder what else I don't know!

#1- When he was a kid he was in a Campbell's Soup Commercial.

#2-There was a guy on Scott's mission (Spokane, Washington) that had a bobcat that he treated like a house cat and Scott wrestled it!

Thursday, September 25, 2008

I've Gotta Say Something

I am extremely troubled by the lack of interest or concern with Proposition 102 among the members of the church and the community. Although I have known several "activists" I have also ran into several people that do not feel the need to take a stand on this issue with the feeling that it would not effect them if gays were allowed to be married... (Imagine me shaking you and yelling this at you) THAT IS NOT TRUE. It will threaten (almost certainly) your freedom of religion, to practice what you believe and teach these same morals and values to your children.

"....if same-sex marriage becomes a recognized civil right, there will be substantial conflicts with religious freedom. And in some important areas, religious freedom may be diminished." (The Divine Institution of Marriage)

I blog-jacked this from a friends blog (thanks Kim)....

If proposition 102 DOES NOT pass...

1. Children in public schools will have to be taught that same-sex marriage is just as good as traditional marriage . The California Education Code (§51890) already requires that health education classes instruct children about marriage. Therefore, unless Proposition 8 passes (similar to Arizona's Prop 102), children will be taught that marriage is a relation between any two adults regardless of gender. There will be serious clashes between the secular school system and the right of parents to teach their children their own values and beliefs. Note: California has already seen an influx of people pulling their kids from public schools and now they are working on banning home schooling. What will you do then?

2. It will lead to more government intrusion into private lives. A photographer in Albuquerque refused to photograph a lesbian couple's civil union ceremony. The New Mexico Human Rights Commission fined the photographer $6000 even though there were other photographers willing to accept the business. And this in a state where same-sex marriage is still illegal.

3. It will lead to speech monitors. An employee at the City of Oakland was threatened with termination for using the terms 'natural family, marriage and family values' while discussing a public issue with co-workers. The Ninth Circuit Court of Appeal backed up the district court saying administrative efficiency in a government office is more important than. Today it's municipal employees; tomorrow...who?

4. Anti-discrimination regulations will become more important than religious beliefs. In Vista, California, a lesbian couple sued a doctor who refused to perform a requested artificial insemination because of the doctor's religious beliefs. Although another doctor offered to do the procedure, the California Supreme Court held unanimously that the '1st Amendment's right to the free exercise of religion does not exempt defendant physicians here from conforming their conduct to the antidiscrimination requirements.' An elective procedure, no emergency involved, another doctor willing to do the procedure. Anti-bias laws still outweigh religion.

5. Churches will be sued over their tax-exempt status if they refuse to allow same-sex marriage ceremonies in their religious buildings open to the public. While pastors, priests, ministers, bishops, and rabbis may not be forced to conduct such marriages themselves, they will be required to allow such marriages in their chapels and sanctuaries.

6. Religious adoption agencies will be challenged by government to give up their long-held right to place children only in homes with both a mother and a father. Catholic Charities in Boston has already closed its doors because of the legalization of same-sex marriage in Massachusetts.

7. Religions that sponsor private schools with married-student housing will be required to provide housing for same-sex couples, even if counter to church doctrine, or risk lawsuits over tax exemptions and related benefits.

8. Ministers who preach against same-sex marriages will be sued for hate speech and could be fined by the government. It has already happened in Canada, one of six countries that have legalized gay marriage. If a government agency such as the Alberta Human Rights Commission can stop a minister from teaching his church's doctrine about marriage, then it won't be long before everyone's free speech rights will be in jeopardy.

9. It will cost everyone more money. This change in the definition of marriage will bring a cascade of lawsuits, including some already decided adversely. Even if courts eventually find in favor of a defender of traditional marriage (highly improbable given today's activist judges), think of the money - your money, your church contributions - that will be spent on legal battles.Think of a world where Human Rights Commissions - unelected bureaucrats with unfettered authority - are judge, jury, and executioner of anything they feel is antagonistic speech toward same-sex marriage and its practitioners.

Think of a world where the judicial system relegates long-held religious beliefs to second-class importance behind anti-bias laws and a newly discovered protected class of people.

Think of a world where the public school system is required to teach values and beliefs to your children that may conflict with your own.

Think of the very real threat to your parental rights, your free speech, your freedom of religion. And think of all the unintended consequences that we cannot even foresee at this time. Where will it end?

It's your children, your grandchildren, your money, and your freedoms. Lets work together to protect them.

"We already have a law, why do we need to ammend the constitution?"

27 other states have already ammended their constitutions to define marriage as between a man and a women. The majority of the vote in California approved a law defining marriage as between a man and a women, but because there was not an ammendment the judges took it upon themselves to change the law and no vote was needed to do that.


"My vote does not count, it is going to happen anyway, I have no say"

This is NOT true! We need everyone's votes! If you take a stand and vote and make sure your neighbors, family and friends understand the importance of their vote we can make a huge difference and make our opinions be heard! VOTE!!! The deadline to register to vote is OCTOBER 6TH and the deadline to request early ballots is October 24th. GO HERE to register to vote! If you are in Pinal County make sure the county on your registration reflects that-not Maricopa or your vote will not count.


"What else can I do besides vote?"

#1-talk to all of your friends and family. This is the most effective way to spread the word and share the facts.

GO HERE to order these magnets for your car for FREE!


GO HERE to order signs, bumper stickers, early ballots, and registration information. You can also go here (http://www.yesformarriage.com/) to volunteer (phone calls, office work, host an event, distribute materials, etc).


Although, we ultimately have the free agency to vote as we wish, the leaders of our church and many others have come out in support of PROP 102 and similar ammendments in other states including California because they understand the ramifications of not ammending the constitutions to reflect marriage as between a man and a women, and we need to back it as well. GO HERE to read the release from The First Presidency of the Church regarding the Institution of Marriage and our families that is being threatened. I hope after reading this you can feel as passionate and determined about this as I am. I am seriously scared for my children if this does not pass and similar things start happening here that have happened in CA and the EU.

VOTE "YES" ON PROP 102

Monday, September 22, 2008

Happy "Real" Birthday


HaPPy BirTHdaY TaTe!
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1. You love cars, trains, and balls. You use all of the terms for baseball..home run, strike, and you even bang the bat on the ground before you swing it. You even ask me to put it on TV all of the time. You are a natural!

2. A light just went on and you are understanding and speaking more. Along with that, you started talking out of the side of your mouth. Not sure where it came from, but for now, it's cute. Now how about potty training?

3. You are so polite and use your manners all on your own! You are a natural sweetheart!

4. You ask for movies by the name of the characters (ie Buzz Lightyear {Toy Story}, Louis {Meet the Robinsons}, Manny {Madagascar}, etc.).

5. You like to sing I am a Child of God, the clean up song, and Popcorn Popping. You also like to sing Twinkle Twinkle Little Star and the ABC's although you usually mix them together.

6. Anytime we are getting in the van to go somewhere you ask me if we can go to Pizza Planet and I laugh every time.

7. You love to pretend you are sleeping and snoring. You think that if you close your eyes I can't see you and you won't have to take a nap.

8. You love to play outside, ride bikes and 4 wheelers.

9. You love to go to the neighbors house any chance you get! You run straight in and make yourself at home and you know exactly where all of the toys are that you like to play with. You go there whenever you please hence, the addition of the alarm on the front door.

10. You love to play with Claire, even though she does not always enjoy you riding her like a horse and dragging her around by her legs. You always want her to be awake and I have to lock you out of her room or you go in and wake her up!